Has there ever been the threat of trouble in your life? During difficult times, just as a strong, tall oak tree is tested and becomes strong through winds of adversity, so our faith will increase and result in us being better, stronger, and more complete in Christ. A special reminder may be in order that everyone goes through trouble and hurt at one point or another. As written in Job 5:7, “Yet man is born to trouble as surely as sparks fly upward.” But, be reassured. God has a purpose in trials and will produce a strong, firm, unbendable, unshakeable faith within us as we trust Him completely.
Our Personal Testimony:
It was the spring of 1996 and I remember standing under the doorway with tears streaming down my face. My husband was in bed, struggling with a deep depression. We had just completed 10 years of pastoring, during which time we pioneered two churches. Those ten years, although overflowing with God’s grace and mercy, were extremely physically, financially, and emotionally draining. We loved the people and the path that we were on; but, we painfully realized that we needed renewal in our own lives. We couldn’t continue on the current path. We loved doing what God had called us to do. But, we had no choice but to make a change. Because of health reasons we had to temporarily leave that which we loved so very much. It was heartbreaking. It was humbling. It was a most difficult time.
This was probably one of the harder days in our life. I remember asking God, “What are we going to do?” It seemed that all was lost. Fortunately, we knew the faithfulness of God. We had previously gone through other tough seasons and God had carried us through those days, too.
Lesson Learned #1: The enemy lies & tells us to hibernate.
There are times when we need to bear in silence the things not understood. But, just don’t let the enemy isolate you from friends and fellowship at this time. Even if the pain is too deep to grasp or share, God gives a way where there seems to be no way. Maybe there’s a friend who will share a cup of coffee. At this time, in my life, I had an elderly neighbor who could always see the sunlight, even on a cloudy day. She would encourage me to smile and laugh. However, the lesson learned at this time was that God is my greatest friend and he understands my heart and circumstances. Therefore, I drew near to God (Heb 7:18-19) and found Him to be my refuge and strength (Ps 46:1).
Lesson Learned #2: The enemy lies & tells us, "There's no hope."
There are days when it almost seems impossible. Even if the heavens sound as brass (De 28:23), you must remember that God has carried you through tough days and that he’ll do it again. One of the important disciplines to develop in life is to remember the Lord’s blessings and faithfulness. As Moses declared (De 11:19) that we are to recount the Lord’s faithfulness, maybe you could journal or write down His times of faithfulness. Maybe you could save memorabilia and keep them on display as a reminder. Whatever your methodology, establish a visual pattern of remembrance so that when the days are dark and there seems no hope, you can recount the Lord’s faithfulness and be assured that He will again be faithful (Ps 25:10).
Lesson Learned #3: The enemy lies to us & calls us a failure.
Probably one of the greatest struggles in times of despair is finding hope in who you are and the path that God has for you. In our lives, because this was a health issue, we asked the Lord for His divine intervention and walked accordingly. But, we didn’t see our prayers materialize. We knew the Scriptures. We knew the Lord’s kindness. Yet, it was as if we were walking in a dark place with dense fog all around. We were barely able to see past the step ahead of us. However, during that time, the Scriptures continued to be our hope (Ps 119:147).
Many people are struggling today with broken dreams. Maybe you feel that there is no hope. You might be in the midst of shattered dreams. Maybe all that you have worked for is gone. Maybe you are going through difficult days because of close personal relationships. I’d like to encourage you with the Word of God.
Lesson Learned #4: God directs us through difficult days.
This world is full of brokenness, which is a result either of mankind’s sin or personal sin. Not everything that we desire can be realized in this lifetime. However, we can choose each and every day to serve the Lord with all of our heart, soul, mind, and strength (Luke 10:27a). We can recognize that He is Lord of Heaven and Earth and the He will keep all of His promises to mankind. One of the keys for making it through the tough times in life comes from Henry Blackaby’s study, Knowing and Doing the Will of God1, which encourages us to “watch to see what God is doing around us and join Him”.
Lesson Learned #5: God wants to show us who He is!
My husband and I are a common, everyday couple. If you get to know us, you’ll soon learn about our faults and human frailties. We have also made lots of mistakes. Yet, we have experienced the power of our resurrected Savior who loves to do the supernatural through ordinary vessels. The Lord delights in making His presence known to mankind. The Lord may have to adjust one’s plans, but He will certainly direct one’s steps. As a perfect gardener, He also prunes us for a greater yield of produce (Jo 15:1-2). Please, do not be discouraged. God will carry you through this trial. He is faithful!
Lesson Learned #6: God wins.
God has a plan for mankind. He wants you to draw close to Him (He 10:22-23). He desires to make a way where there is no way (Heb 11:29-30). He is victorious. He is the King of kings and Lord of lords. Nothing is impossible for Him (Lu 1:37).
Footnotes:
1Blackaby, Henry T & Claude V King, Knowing and Doing the Will of God (Nashville, Tennessee: LifeWay Press, 1990), p. 28.